7 tips how to keep love longer!
Falling in love sometimes happens fast! But what if the first storm of emotions is over? We tell you how love survives everyday life!
Surprise your sweetheart!
Nothing is more deadly for love than boredom. And that comes up quickly if you press your relationship sometimes just in your everyday stress. Then it can not unfold, quickly becomes routine and you lose contact with each other. Do not let that happen!
Break out of your relationship every day and surprise your sweetheart with an extraordinary action. For example, with tickets for a concert of his / her favorite band, a romantic weekend trip, a surprise birthday party, a picnic, or any other spontaneous idea that your boyfriend/girlfriend is looking forward to.
Celebrate your love!
Whether Anniversary, Birthday or Valentine's Day - there is always a reason to celebrate you and your love. Such days are still an excellent opportunity to appreciate the partner and your great love.
Care for your friendships!
A love usually passes some time. But good friendships sometimes last a lifetime. So do not neglect your best friends just because you're in a relationship again. And what a friend gives you, a partner cannot always in the same way! And both kinds of fun and trust are essential to you!
Good friends are significant. They will help you, comfort you or give you tips if you are not doing so well.
This is a big relief for your relationship partner. Imagine you have no one but him to share your worries with. Then your love would soon be completely overloaded. Only those who cultivate their friendships, have enough support in the circle of friends and not overwhelmed his sweetheart with his problems.
Do not squat constantly!
Anyone who only clings to each other all year round will eventually get fed up with being in constant contact. That's completely normal. That's why it's smart to make "relationship vacations" from time to time.
Do something new often!
No relationship stays the same as it used to be. Because loving oneself also means that you face new challenges. Development is right for every relationship because it ensures that one person does not get bored and that one is also thrilled for one's partner.
So invite your darling to try something new together. You always wanted to learn how to climb? Then do a climbing course and ask your sweetheart, if he wants to join. Did you want to stand on a stage for a long time and sing? Then borrow a karaoke machine and organize a karaoke party. You always wanted to learn Italian? Show a course and ask your sweetheart if he joins in.
By the way: Even if your friend/girlfriend does not feel like it - do it anyway! Because those who are curious about new things stay sexier for the partner longer.
Fight - but right!
Always agreeing and finding everything good at the other - that's only nice for a few weeks. If you are always on a cuddly course, you risk your love. For the addiction to harmony and a healthy world is one of the most common relationship killers. In the process anger and anger are swept under the carpet and continue to smoke in secret.
Those who do not get rid of the accumulated frustration poison their relationship. But those who dare to argue with their partner and to discuss problems will be rewarded. Because after every reconciliation, you feel even more connected than before.
Talk about your feelings!
The biggest enemy of a relationship is the speechlessness. Sure, at first it's different. If you are in love, you do not have to talk so much. But when the first in love is over, it is often not easy to talk to the partner about his feelings, thoughts, fantasies, fears or desires.
The reason: most are afraid of the consequences. "What does he think of me then?" "Probably she will then stop!" "Certainly he will not like me then anymore!" All nonsense!
Make it clear: Your sweetheart cannot read any thoughts! And those who do not talk and only leave the partner to his fantasies risk misunderstandings that can jeopardize the relationship. If you want to clarify something with your sweetheart, then open your mouth! Say what you want, how you feel, what annoys you. Only when the other one knows what is going on can he react to it and change something!
